Speaking of seduction, if it has become a thing of the past in your relationship, bring it back."As people become more comfortable and sex becomes more routine, couples often just hop into bed and start going through their sexual motions," says Jeske. Leave a trail of clothes from the front door to the living room.
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Couples can struggle with how often to have sex, and what to do when they're in bed together.
"They sometimes make love to express love, and it can be tender or sweet, and sometimes they are just going through the motions, because they feel like they 'should' be having sex," she says.
And is it weird to feel as though you've dried up on the idea front? "People often tell me they run out of ideas when it's time to try something new in the bedroom," sex and relationship counselor Julie Jeske tells Bustle.
This makes sense — there are only so many times that you can roll out a new idea or position, and it's way too easy to let yourself become too comfortable.
This is exactly what it sounds like: Get a bowl, and write down all the things you want to try sexually, Jeske says. "You can include specific things, like positions, or games, or kinds of sex," she says. Or you can include things like, 'The person who pulls this card initiates.' Or, 'The person who pulls this card gives the other person oral sex.'" This can make for an interesting night — and also allows for desires to come to light.