It’s what makes the difference between a date and a soul mate, a friend and a lover and we call it, chemistry.
We can peer at a face through the static glow of the computer screen, allow our eyes to process a person's face and then firmly decide whether or not we deem him or her beautiful enough to be a dating candidate. Let's never forget to listen to our bodies because sometimes they're far wiser than our brains could ever dream of being.We can study every word in a slew of personality profiles. No matter how “perfect” he or she appears, no matter how amazing his or her words are, no matter how much our parents would approve of the awesome specimen sitting in front of us -- if his or her touch doesn't right, let's not ignore it.You find yourselves beginning to want to share everything.The chemistry between you even makes you prepared to make compromises in what you do and do not like, in order to achieve a harmony.Or maybe our intuition knows that what we THINK we want isn't what we want at all? Shouldn't we always listen to and be wary of our bodies' physical reaction to everything and everyone?
Oh, that moment when our nerves suddenly explode all over us just from making accidental with a stranger. But herein lies the problem with online dating: Sexual Chemistry has no profile. Sometimes we feel the most epic sexual chemistry of our entire lives with the most unexpected of people.
Our body is telling us we direly want this person, fully and now. In this digital age, we are starving, depraved from being hit by the unexpected electric shock of sexual chemistry that can only happen in person. After all, we are ever so easily able to engage in the art of conversation, right? Connecting with people on an intellectual level is not usually an issue for two seemingly compatible entities.
Virtual feelings will never carry the weight of in-person feelings. We take to our smart phones and manically swipe left or right, carefully curating who cuts it and who gets cut. But let's not lose sight of our sexual draw in the thick of words, text messages and screenshots.
The chemistry that means that you’ve found your soul mate is shown by your being comfortable and happy, just to be together.
The physical attraction is important, but now, it is certainly not everything. You start to notice the small details about him When there is a real chemistry between people they actually begin to imprint on the minds of one another.
It's when you feel that irrepressible tug, the curious magnetic pull drawing you toward another person with such a ferocious intensity; it feels almost beyond the realm of your own self-control. It's when…Once upon a time, a girl met someone she felt she had little to nothing in common with while on vacation……Until they kissed, and the kissing quickly turned into touching, and the touching turned into them devouring one another's bodies until the morning sunlight broke through the dark nighttime sky.