What’s more, you’ve had experience with different types of men, and you can easily point out the young man’s flaws and opportunities for growth. According to Alan Angal, 36, he was attracted to his older fiancée, Jennifer Siegner, 45, for her stability: And while you might think that young men only want something quick, it’s not entirely true.You understand what kind of man he is and what kind of man he can be. Some guys become so in love with you, they just want to be with you for the rest of their life. Some studies have found that men prefer honest women, particularly for long-term relationships.And young men prefer dating cougars to younger, immature women. You’ve become wiser and better at coping with difficult situations in life.
Also, they know that you’re in the relationship for the right reasons, rather than using him for money. And anyway, young men want to focus on their careers.They simply don’t have time to focus on their career AND children.They aren’t as skilled at controlling them, either. Men also love the fact that you don’t play games, as Gareth Rubin describes in The Telegraph, “Mind games are very much the environ of the younger girl.But an older woman has learned how to control her emotions. Past 40, women are utterly upfront about where you’re going very wrong – brutal, certainly, but an easier way to live in so many other respects.” After all, she’s worked hard for her money throughout her career and she wants to spend it wisely.You’re older, wiser and know exactly what you want. You didn’t become a successful woman out of nowhere. He understands, admires and respects this, as he knows how difficult it is for a woman to rise in the ranks.
According to psychologist, Sam Owen, this may be a reason why younger men like older women: “Young men nowadays probably also recognize that older women are adept at diligently juggling so many responsibilities (career, children, housekeeping, fitness, finances, socializing), which makes them intriguing and attractive and a more secure option.” You’re filled with wisdom and stability and he can’t believe his luck that he has become part of your life.As an older single woman, you’ve mastered the art of cooking.You’ve had to cook for yourself, and sometimes, cook for your own family.An older woman helps them understand more about almost any topic.A big problem for a young man is financial security.Some men love the nurturing qualities that older women have.