Most women are not stupid, gullible, dumb, or any other name critics choose to call them for the selections in men they make.
Yet, you have always had a funny feeling in your gut that he was the one who made off with your dad’s tools, took your favorite CD, helped himself to some cash sitting around, and other important items. The kind of plan you come up with can’t be easily figured out by him and if you sincerely want your restless conscience to be at peace, then go to great lengths to figure out whether he is trustworthy.Time is money and the longer you stay with him, the more items will go missing.Actions you may want to consider are the following: Approach him not only with what you think, but what you know; in other words have proof. Let him know that this behavior you will not accept any longer.If he chooses to continue lying, then tell him you will have to end the relationship for good.The ever-popular question of, “Why did she get herself involved with him anyway?
” continues to loom over their heads and the reasons vary depending on whom you ask.These strategies simply will never work for some men.There comes a time when women will have to get off their knees whether she is praying to God or pleading to her mate to change.He will leave a trail of evidence whether it is the popular piece of paper that slips out of his pocket with a phone number without a name, restaurant receipts, hotel charges, cologne or jewelry gifts, read and sent email that sits in his account that he forgot to delete.He begins to create a pattern in his actions when you have become old and someone else becomes new. He may develop his pattern after work on a daily basis working later and later nights at the office then when he comes home he is providing almost too much detail about what happened at work or not at all.Another pattern he may create may be choosing a hobby or interest that is very unusual to his personality and attending this faithfully, what you can do to find out if he is sincere is offer to pick him up from the pottery class on some nights. There may also be the weekend pattern of always “needing to get away, have some time to myself, or I’m so busy with errands.” All the while making little or no time for the two of you to go out and be seen together.